Planning your life, and your death

By tongkatali.org
Updated May 12, 2023

You want the best possible sexual satisfaction while you are alive, and you want to end life with a comfortable death.

During your life, you will have to spend more time on the logistics of sexual satisfaction than that of a comfortable death.

Taking care of a comfortable death involves avoiding situations in which there is a substantial risk for a non-comfortable death. You don’t want to work in a coalmine, and you don’t want to be a soldier. You avoid, as good as you can, boarding aircraft, and you don’t just entrust your body and mind to surgeons. You DON'T want to be reanimated when you are in a coma, or after experiencing cardiac arrest.

Sacrilegious as this may sound, we consider a cardiac arrest a blessing, rather than a medical emergency. Unlike heart attacks, cardiac arrests are not painful. The heart may go into fibrillation, which is a disturbance of it's rhytm; then blood doesn't circulate. A person loses consciousness, and dies without discomfort of any kind. You could say, one just drops dead.

Now, why should this be a blessing? For the person experiencing the cardiac arrest, it is. For survivors with vested interests, it may be not.

It is a blessing for the affected because life just ends, without suffering and even without awareness. That is the best, we can hope for. There is nothing to be afraid of. There is just Nothing. It's what you were before being conceived. Any negative memories of that?

Anything after your death isn't real. But what is real, is the torture, mostly by nature, that you can feel before being dead. If only the pain were short, lasting only a moment. But usually, it is drawn out. And the actions of physicians typically prolong the agony.

What do you get in exchange for a slower, more uncomfortable death? A life of toil, interspersed with sexual happiness, and minor, non-sexual, pleasures. As for me, Tongkatali.org, I'd take the sudden cardiac arrest, thank you. But for as long as the cardiac arrest, or a less comfortable death, does not happen, I pursue optimal sex. Unfortunately, during normal days when health and unhappiness is not an immedient issue, committing suicide would be the less comfortable option. But a sudden cardiac arrest would be welcome, any time.

Otherwise, life goes on, and there is nothing better to do than to pursue optimal sex.

For some men, to sleep with a different prostitute every day or night is their idea of a sexual paradise. For other men, it’s to have longer-term relationships (though not an indefinite one). And for others, again, the goal is several parallel relationships, love-based or not.

Whatever the goals, location and an understanding of sexual economics are crucial. Even for those frequenting prostitutes, there is a huge difference in the quality of service they can expect in various parts of the world. Generally speaking, Africa, South America, and Southeast Asia provide better value than North America or Europe.

Prostitutes are not my shoe, and beyond the above general assessments, I can provide no guidance for those who seek nirvana in the arms, or other places, of prostitutes.

A considerable age difference often adds to the sexual excitement in a relationship. A teenager can have the most memorable sexual encounters with women more than twice of age, and being older, many prefer younger partners.

In the US, relationships with a considerable age difference appear immoral, and in some constellations are illegal, but in other parts of the world (Vive la France!), there is a better understanding of the charming aspects of such relationships.

Here we go: Emmanuel Macron, the French President with better looks than John F. Kennedy, born December 21, 1977, is married to Brigit Macron, born April 13, 1953 meaning she is 24 years older than her husband. That should have assured him a lot of the women's vote. After all, here, it seems, you have a man who doesn't fall for younger women, as so often encountered, diminishing the value of women as they become less fresh and beautiful.

The relationship started when he was 15 and she was a 40-year old mother-of-three, and his teacher at school (thus a person of authority over a minor). No legal case evolved.

Imagine this the other way around, a 40-year teacher and father-of-three, starting a relationship with a 15-year-old girl who is his student. Not only would he appear a 'dirty old man'; he would be prosecuted. So much for gender equality. Harsher standards apply to men.

References:

Baumeister, Roy F; Vohs, Kathleen D (2004) , Sexual economics: sex as female resource for social exchange in heterosexual interactionsPersonality and Social Psychology Review, Vol 8(4), Pages: 339-63 https://doi.org/10.1207/s15327957pspr0804_2

Brigitte MacronWikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brigitte_Macron

Hospice Nurse Julie (2023), End of Life phenomena, Youtube, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWyEhtv83dw

Lilles, Cecile Lopez (2006), D.O.M. (Dirty Old Man), PhilStar, https://www.philstar.com/lifestyle/fashion-and-beauty/2006/06/28/344304/dom-dirty-old-man

Providing Care and Comfort at the End of LifeNational Institute on Aging, https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/providing-comfort-end-life

Ray, Michael (2023) Emmanuel Macron, president of France Article History, https://www.britannica.com/biography/Emmanuel-Macron